Frankly speaking, a best friend is in my life, who is totally different frm me, truly send by god for me, out of ordinary, little ziddi, sweet, smart, intellegent; who loves, cares, cries for me, & even laugh on my stupid jokes; the only one who’s always with me. Will very soon write abt how we met and how are we in total different from each other but still we are friends.
The special bond called Friendship, which is crafted on trust and preserved with love. They are friends who know your weaknesses and yet give you company and encourage to move forward in life. Friendship teaches us the value of sharing and give meaning to ordinary experiences. Considered as one of the purest relationships, Friendship can help us feel comfortable in every walk of life, as the number of things we cannot discuss with our friends are almost nil. Family are bond by nature but friendship is what which we choose in our own way, making the bond even more special. A friend, is the courage you get when you know that you can walk up the hill of trouble, because you know that he/she will be there with you, both uphill and downhill. He can bring a smile to your face when you have absolutely nothing to be happy about, and turn the whole melodrama into a chick flick. With a good friend, each day is better than yesterday. Sometimes I wonder why God made friends (because there are already enough relatives to deal with). But then it strike me that, that is exactly the point. We need a break from the normal family routine and friends provide us that extra space in our hearts and minds to deal with the world, and sometimes the nagging relatives.
...A friend, who just gives you a call and say, ‘I just call to say hi’…
Every relationship needs to be cared for making it stronger. It demands patience and time. You need to be a good listener, loyal and sincere and show your affection whenever the moment comes. You can’t just do the judgement without knowing the facts and small things can’t just ruin the long lasting bond between friends. Every relationship has problems, but doesn’t mean holding grudge for a small issue n jeopardize the bonding, even not giving it a second thought. Y do we search for friends because they are only the one who are always in our ups and down when rest of the world walks away from you. We come through many people in our life, but we choose only selective people with whom we are more comfortable being with, talk about deep and troubling subjects. Can call in times of need and difficulties, they are always standing all along in any circumstances. We just want them to be around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy mutually liked activities and above all is we even need them sometime to pour our frustration also.
Friends makes us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for whatever we are.
Being the best of all out of you, having a smile to admire helps in strengthening the bond of friendship that means so many things to you. Going out of unusual to make it usual and being normal sometime makes feel special. Everyone likes surprises, call out, for walk or tea or even lunch n dinner at his/her favorite place. Reminding abt the places you been to, places you wanna go with, makes the feeling that you think about him/her wherever you are. We all need good friends to guide us in the right path/direction when we step in the wrong direction. She/he will bring a smile on your face when you are feeling low and will go out of her/his way to help in your every possible way, whether you ask for help or not.
…har ek friend jaruri hota hai…
Though m not that lucky till now to celebrate the true spirit of friendship but i say it to everyone, never miss a chance to celebrate the spirit of friendship. A best friend is like a rare and precious gem that is hard to find and once you have it, they glow your life with all that is good and beautiful. Surprise your best friends on a friendship day and display your love and gratitude in a most cherished style. Saying directly is the best but if not then writing an heart touching article or writing a poem on friend that outpour your expressions in favourite words. When you feel time is appropriate, then without hesitation say your self-written friendship poem in your way in front of your best friend. On a friendship day, besides friendship bands another good option is nice greeting cards, yellow/white roses, cake, gifts & above all is if you get the chance then don’t miss the chance to surprise him/her with a surprise visit.
P.S. : thank you and even god for being in my life.
